this seemed to work for me, I get much better framerates, this may work for others as well. The <p> tags somehow made the video run smoother.
also for the record my PC is a 2008 quad core desktop with 4GB ram and 1024MB graphics card, and it struggles with viddler.
<html>
</body>
<p>
<object classid='clsid:D27CDB6E-AE6D-11cf-96B8-444553540000' width='437' height='333' id='viddler'>
<param name='movie' value='http://www.viddler.com/player/99d5f743/' />
<param name='allowScriptAccess' value='always' />
<embed src='http://www.viddler.com/player/99d5f743' width='437' height='333' type='application/x-shockwave-flash' allowScriptAccess='always' name='viddler' allowFullScreen='true'>
</embed>
</object>
</p>
</body>
</html>
Daily motion seems fine with me. For videos under 20 minutes, An admin can easily submit anyone's work. If the video is over 20 minutes, then the creator of the movie can register themselves as a motion maker and upload their own videos to a TASVideos group with no time restriction. The only problem here is that it must be the creator of the movie that uploads the file.
As for the comment above, well, yes it's a CPU hog, and half the people here would agree that the videos there are unwatchable because of that. 5fps is not the kind of framerates you want to watch a fast movie on. so no, the videos do not run "smoother" for half of the people here. Maybe not you, but quite a few people.
Also wouldn't it be fairly easy, if you hate the layout of the dailymotion website (to ignore it?) to embed it on the TASVideos website somewhere? sounds reasonable to me.